For many of us, Tinder is just about fucking, but not for everyone. All photos by author. Tinder is the hook-up generation's GPS for banging. It's quick, convenient, and provides access to seeing a new person naked IRL. Is it mainly to get laid? For myself and most people I know, that answer is a loud and inarguable "Obviously. But browse through Tinder on any given day and you'll find people who disagree.
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I want more than a hook-up — sex just isn't enough. If all you have on the brain is tits and vagina, then it's obvious any conversation with you is going to bore. I want a relationship. Waking up next to someone who you never see again is not for me.
I am 37, a single mom and am looking to find someone , but not a boyfriend. After years of slowly losing my mojo and sexual confidence, I am slowly rediscovering my drives and desires and now want to find someone to explore that with. I am looking for a semi-regular hookup with someone I can get to know over time and explore my sexuality, but I am not ready to actually meet someone for the longer term. How on earth do I ask for this on an app like Tinder without getting scary messages?
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